Imagine that one day , you went home from school , exhausted , exasperated , and disheveled from the tones of homework and hectic schedule . After releasing the day’s burden by taking a refreshing shower ,you returned to your room .You’re alone .Quiet .You sat by the edge of your soft mattress , closed your eyes , and stretched your body in the pleasant silence .Suddenly , “BANG !!”

The room flew open , and from outside , choking from the burst of laughter and exhilaration , your roommate ambushed your haven .A phone pressed into her right ear , she went totally gaga over the conversation .Your eyes bulged out but you sat very still .

One hour later , some of her friend make a ‘visit’ into her ‘bed’ , bringing in some ‘foods’( which might smell rather ‘heavenly’ to you ) , and watching movies and videos from youtube out loud with maximum volume . You stood up , went into her side of the bed , and with the most pleasant smile you could give her at the moment , asked her to ‘please use a headphone as I need to study ‘ . She answered ‘sorry one headphone isn’t enough for four ‘ .You went back defeated , extremely annoyed .

Four hour later , ANOTHER friend of her dashed into your room AGAIN , ruining the little peaceful .atmosphere you’ve had just for a few minutes after the last wave of her friends left .This time , the friend didn’t scream or laught or went gaga . Instead , she cried - worse still – over some boyfriend or girlfriend or a dead film star somewhere-in-the-world .Your patience spent on this , you went out , OUT .

What should you do then ?

1. Asked politely
2. After a week , start to scold her .
3. If she still stay deaf , compete to make a louder noise with her .
4. She's still deaf to it ? You burn her laptop ( HAHAHA !!! So she can't watch movies anymore KHEkhekhekhe...)
5.WHOA ?! Still deaf and blind ? You go and kick her ass !!

NO ! No! No !
We live in a democratic society what ...
Everything must be settled with diplomacy ...Well , you’re not alone .So ,lets see an article about handling such situation .

“there are plenty of other things that can go wrong with a new dorm or apartment roommate. Maybe you're more of the party type and your roommate thinks bible study is just sooooooo much fun. Maybe your roommate doesn't know the meaning of "too loud," "maybe later," "lighten up you stiff," or "for the last time, this is MINE, that is YOURS." Like I said, there are plenty of things that can go wrong with the unexpected roommate. Maybe you two just aren't compatible -but don't worry- we here at thecollegeguys.com know just what to do.

Step one is to relax. This kind of thing is normal. You'll find hundreds if not thousands of others who are in the same position as you are. Its one of those "please don't happen to me" type of things, and when it does, one is usually unaware of what should be done or how to handle the situation. If you've been in this situation, you know what I'm talking about. First, you're angry and get the whole "why me" syndrome, wishing your roomie was as cool as your friends'. Then you try to avoid the situation as much as possible but when it gets to be too much you experience moments of extreme awkwardness with your room-buddy and anyone else s/he's associated with. Worse case scenario is that it starts to affect your work or study skills, and when that happens, you KNOW its bad.

Some problems are really common, such as bathroom use and privacy. The most important things to establish with a new roommate are boundaries. Your roomie needs to know what are off-limits (e.g. shampoo, bag of chips, your snacks , your bed !!) and what the meaning of space is. The ability to compromise is important in relations among roommates, so you may have to give a little to get a little. You will also have to be frank with your roomie, being clear about what's your side of the room and about clearing up scheduling conflicts, for example. Scheduling conflicts are particularly important because you don't want to take home a major project when your roommate has penciled in a yoga session or keg party. Remember, communication is key.

Now, if you are to sort these issues out with your roommate, its important to do it correctly. You can't just rush up to your mate and demand that you go over some ground rules...."or else." That won't do (however, it could be fun). What you need to do is the following:

@Be early: don't wait until a status quo has been established... you want to make sure that early on in your relationship that you and your roommate are on the same page.

@Be sincere: don't be demanding nor impatient, and try to be understanding of the poor bastard- otherwise, you could make the whole situation come to a head by turning him/her off any compromise whatsoever. Make your roomie believe that you want to help him/her as much as you do yourself.

@Be willing to sacrifice: have in mind what you can compromise in return for not using your closet or towels, etc. Now not all roommates are the same, so you may have to think twice about how to approach yours. However, follow these basic guidelines, and you should save yourself some headaches later on.”

The article is written by Nostagio Onesti .

Hehe.. Okay ... so , try it out . She's still so noisy ?
Hmm ... let's see .. Democracy = diplomacy and deterrence .

If diplomacy doesn't work , deterrence then!Bulge your eyes while talking to her . Stare at her , shot her a nasty look , pour down your hatred through an icy glance or look at her with the kind of don't-you-dare-go-near-me look until she understand ... Hoho... no ..still . Diplomacy will work _I think so... So , all e best ! Hope this will be useful.

By : You-don't-like-me ?? Call 911 . Who cares ...??

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